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Why I Want to Become a Teacher (Eventually)

The other night (or morning) I was talking to a friend through Facebook chat about my wanting to share knowledge to other people. She asked me if I wanted to teach or if I am thinking of teaching in the future. Of course, my answer was a big YES. Eventually, when I already have something to say, I would love to impart knowledge to others. It doesn’t matter if I will be teaching street children, high school or college students. Learning is for everyone. It knows no age, gender, sexuality etc.

When I woke up today, I thought of my teachers and how they each made a difference in my life. I hope I didn’t forget anyone.

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I remember finishing my first book when I was 4. I read The Wolf and the Seven Little Kids for more than 2 hours because I cannot pronounce some of the words in the book. My Daddy stayed up the whole night to help me understand what the story was about and made sure that I pronounced each word correctly. He was my first teacher and he encouraged my siblings and I to read. Not so long after I managed to memorize my first book (I read it more than 10 times) my Daddy bought me 3 more books to read. If I remember correctly, he got me Heidi, The Time Machine and The Three Musketeers. My interest in books grew that frequent trips to National Bookstore felt like heaven, at least to me.

As the family grew, my parents had to work twice as hard to support the family. During that time, Lolo Bert (my Mom’s Dad) lived with us and we were often left with him at home. My siblings and I loved playing outside but my Lolo wanted to keep us at home so he allowed us to watch television. I, as a kid, never really liked television and I guess my Lolo noticed that too. I remember him asking me to read the newspaper with him. I honestly didn’t understand the news but I loved hearing new words. To make things even more interesting, he’d ask me to use these new words in sentences. That was my earliest encounter with writing. Over the next few years, I always had a book and notebook with me.

When I was 10, I met Mrs. Barreto. She was our Reading teacher. I remember how she’d always compliment me for reading books and for always attempting to write stories and essays. I joined so many writing and declamation contests because of her. I felt really good about myself. I enjoyed her encouragement. I believe she was the first school teacher who ever got to me and I told myself that someday I’d find her and thank her for the inspiration.

When high school came, things were different. I left writing for a while and focused on other matters. After all it was high school. I actually felt the need to fit in (I was a high school nobody) and I tried to join different organizations to see if I would actually make more friends and at the same time improve myself. I didn’t join any writing organizations but I continued to read and write. I guess I was a shy high school student. Everything felt really awkward. Towards the end of my sophomore year, I got into the girl’s basketball team where I learned important life lessons that I never thought I’d learn in high school. I met Coach Jayen during try outs. I was there to support a friend but I ended up joining since he didn’t want anyone watching the try outs unless they are a part of it. He was strict, the fun kind of strict. He always emphasized on discipline and working hard. I remember shedding tears after fights, tough basketball practices, team problems, losses among other things. He always kept his cool. I admired him for dedicating his life to playing and teaching basketball.

Come college, I was fortunate to meet mentors who challenged the hell (in a positive way) out of me. I remember trying to understand why they were so strict, why they had such high standards and why they valued originality and professionalism so much. I guess, I only understood them when I started my journey in the corporate world. Words cannot express how thankful I am for these people. Thank you Dr. Anjeli Diaz, Ms. Judy Sibayan, Ms. Lai Rallos, Mr. Ronald Jabal and Amang Jun Cruz Reyes.

Aside from college professors, I am also grateful to Malate Literary Folio for teaching me to embrace writing as a craft, for teaching me self-discipline and most of all for showing me that life is for living. I can never thank this organization enough for all the craft and life lessons.

Fast forward to today, I can say that in my past 3 years of work I have met so many admirable people as well. Everyday is a rat race and I know I cannot slow down. All of the people I mentioned above contributed to this accumulated strength that I have. I am your product and my commitment is to never stop improving.

Someday I will have something important to say. Someday I am going to become an awesome teacher like the ones before me.

Salute to all the teachers around the world! Congratulations. 🙂

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25 is not just a number.

Most of my batchmates (myself included) will turn 25 this year. This means that I will be reading more status messages on Facebook and/or Twitter about life choices, realizations, engagements, weddings and more. Most of us, if not all, will be wondering if we made the right choices in life. Case in point: Did I take the right college course? Did I end up in my dream job? Or a sucky job that pays? Am I with the right man? Am I going to marry soon?

I am quite certain that there will be more questions in the future. These life questions will never end and the best way to get an answer is to go out and find it.

I promised myself that I will write 25 things I have learned in my short life. Since insomnia pretty much took over my night life since I resigned, I managed to finish the list earlier this morning and I am pretty excited to share it with you.

Here you go. In no particular order.

1.) Happiness is a choice.

The first time I became genuinely happy was when I decided to become a happy person. It only takes 5 minutes to change your mindset and I didn’t think of that for the past 22 years.

2.) Laugh.

It’s contagious.

3.) Thank the people who love you. Embrace the people who hate you.

Accept everyone. Good or bad. They made you who you are now.

4.) Accept things you cannot control.

Never attempt to control things you know you have no power over. Know where you stand and act accordingly.

5.) Do what you love.

And love what you do. You can only live a life that is yours. Live it well.

6.) It is okay to look back, but never get stuck.

Learn from your mistakes but don’t let it get to you. Learn and move on.

7.) Inspire people. 

Because at some point, somebody inspired you. Thank you Daddy, Amang Jun, Milan Kundera and Haruki Murakami.

8.) Teach. 

My Daddy always tells me “Share what you know. Life is about sharing.”

9.) Love like there’s no tomorrow. 

A cliche we pretend to dislike. Love your family, love your work, love your partner. Love or do not love at all.

10.) It is okay to make mistakes.

And it’s a sin to commit the same mistake. Tattoo the mistake in your head. Let it serve as a reminder that you have learned something and that you have grown a better version of yourself.

11.) Study. Go back to school.

Not because it will look good on your resume but because there are some things that you still haven’t learned when you were in school. Go back and claim it. You’d be surprised.

12.) Have an edge.

Think of yourself as a product on a supermarket shelf. Will you buy you? If you hesitated, you know what you have to do. Find your strength and work on it. Do whatever it takes to have an edge. Never stop asking yourself, “Will you buy you?”

13.) Finish unfinished businesses.

End it whatever it is.

14.) Listen.

People/things/events may change your life. Pay attention.

15.) You know nothing except yourself.

So do not judge people. You have no idea about them but you know yourself. Restrain.

16.) Do not assume.

You cannot know everything. You may have missed an important point.

17.) Read and take notes.

Educate yourself. This will not only give you confidence but it will also make you a better person. Knowledge is power.

18.) Thank your teachers.

Whoever they are, at some point in your life, someone taught you the way.

19.) Drink your coffee slowly.

Savor it.

20.) Talk face to face with people.

You will feel ten times better talking to a friend face to face than talking to ten friends on Facebook simultaneously through chat. Nothing beats a face to face conversation.

21.) Ask someone out on a date.

Aside from your boyfriend/girlfriend. Ask a good friend out on a date. New adventures await.

22.) Connect with old friends.

They say that people’s lives change every six months. Aren’t you curious?

23.) Ask questions.

You will regret it if you don’t.

24.) Answer questions.

Some people may think that you have an answer for them, and maybe you do. Trust yourself to answer.

25.) Travel.

Because every place I’ve been to has a special invisible place in my memory and heart. Traveling gives you a new perspective every time. It gives you a sense of wonder that you will not find elsewhere. You are never the same person every single time.

Do you have your own list? Share it with me! 🙂

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